Many women wonder if they have a g-spot. If so, where is it? How do I find it? Should it feel good? Can I have a g-spot orgasm?

G-spot toys can help you to locate your g-spot and experience the pleasure of g-spot stimulation. If you are someone who generally needs clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, then I recommend using a toy that will provide simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulation.

Where is your g-spot?

The g-spot is composed of erectile tissues. It is located on the front of the vaginal wall. All g-spot toys are curved. When inserting a g-spot toy, it should always have the curved tip pointing toward your belly button (not your hips or back).

G-spot toys

Above a a few pictures of some g-spot toys. The toy on the far left is an excellent g-spot toy! It was created by a female doctor who wanted to help women find and experience their g-spots. She knew that have additional clitoral stimulation was important, so she added the clitoral piece. This toy has two vibrating bullets. One provides vibration to the g-spot shaft and the other to the nubbies on the little mound that provides clitoral pleasure. If you have never found your g-spot, I highly recommend starting with this toy!

The middle toy is waterproof and provides just g-spot stimulation. There is no clitoral attachment. If you do not need clitoral stimulation this is a good toy, or you can provide your own stimulation.

The toy on the right is also a good g-spot toy. If you have already experienced your g-spot, this is a great toy. I recommend using it is different positions: on your back, tummy, sitting, etc. You will feel different intensity in different positions.

Female ejaculation

(a.k.a. as squirting or gushing) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts and/or urethra during orgasm. The exact source of the fluid is debated, although some researchers believe it originates from the Skene's gland.

Is the gushing fluid urine? Am I peeing myself?

No, scientific studies from the 1980s and later have demonstrated an effect that is unrelated to urine.

Female ejaculation has been around for a long time!

Female ejaculation has been discussed in anatomical, medical, and biological literature since classical antiquity. The Greek philosopher Aristotle noted the existence of female ejaculation,[4] and the Roman physician Galen (2nd century) described the female prostate. The Italian Renaissance anatomist Renaldus Columbus referred to female ejaculate in his explanation of the function of the clitoris. In the 17th century, the Dutch anatomist Regnier de Graaf wrote a book about female anatomy and spoke of female fluid "rushing out" and "coming in one gush" during sexual excitement.[5]

Ancient reports

It must also be noted that female ejaculation has long been reported in Ancient Indian and Chinese history. The Sanskrit word for female ejaculate is "Amrita" meaning divine nectar that supposedly had medicinal properties. The esoteric Buddhist sect of Tantra was particularly focused on this physical function in their ritualistic, sexual practice.

Research suggests that female ejaculate originates from Skene's gland.

Modern investigation

Up until the 1980s female ejaculation was largely ignored by the medical community. At that time the subject resurfaced with the bestselling book The G-Spot by Ladas, Whipple, and Perry. The book not only addressed the validity of the G-spot, but it also brought female ejaculation to the forefront of women's sexual health inside the medical community.

Lack of scientific evidence

While many in the medical and scientific communities are now acknowledging the existence of female ejaculation, there remains a large void when it comes to solid scientific data explaining:

• the process of ejaculation in females, or
• the source of the fluid itself.

Nature of the fluid

Studies have been done by Beverly Whipple, John Perry, Gary Schuback, Milan Zaviacic and Cabello Santamaria but their findings are limited. While current information offers no solid information about the source of the fluid, chemical analysis performed on the fluid has revealed that while it sometimes contains at least traces of urine, it regularly contains chemical markers unique to the prostate (whether male or female).[1]

The latest research indicates the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it:

• The expelled or released fluid is not urine, it is an alkaline liquid secreted by the paraurethral (alongside the urethra) glands.
• The paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), along with prostate-specific antigen (PSA).[6][7][8][9][10]
• Skene's gland also produces Human Protein 1, a trait formerly believed to be unique to the male prostate.[11]

There have been a number of studies carried out on the fluid expelled during female ejaculation to determine the chemical makeup. Through chemical analysis the expelled fluid has been found to contain the following:

• glucose (a natural sugar) and fructose (another natural sugar, also found in the prostatic fluid of semen)
• prostate-specific antigen (PSA), a protein in male ejaculate produced by the prostate gland, and in females, believed to be generated by Skene's glands
• very low levels of creatinine and urea (the two primary chemical markers of urine, found in high levels in pre- and post-ejaculatory urinalysis).[14]

Studies have found that:

• 54-60% of women have experienced emission of fluid at orgasm,
• with 6% reporting that they regularly ejaculate in a forceful manner, and
• an additional 13% stating that they have done so infrequently.[12][1]

Dr. Shubach believes that "most women, the overwhelming proportion of women" are capable of ejaculation.[13]

Skene's glands and female ejaculation

Women do not have an exact equivalent of the male prostate gland, an essential part of the male reproductive system. They do, however, have structures which are homologous to the male prostate. Homologous structures between men and women have developed from the same embryonic tissue. For example, the testicles of the male and the ovaries of the female are also homologous.

The homologous equivalent of the male prostate for women are the para-urethral glands or Skene's glands or female prostate. This identification requires a broader definition Skene's glands because the term is often reserved for the two para-urethral glands closest to the opening of the urethra. These glands are there because, for the first weeks in development, the male and female embryo are not yet differentiated.

Fluid production in para-urethral glands

The relative size and structure of the para-urethral glands varies considerably from woman to woman. The fluid produced is similar to that produced by the male prostate and, as in the male, passes into the urethra – and in some cases may pass into the vagina. The glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be felt through the vaginal wall.

Swelling of para-urethral tissue

The swelling of the tissue surrounding the urethra may be a combination of the glands filling with fluid and of the swelling of the woman’s erectile tissue, the corpus cavernosum clitoridis. In a male the corpus cavernosum penis produces erections. Swelling of the non-visible part of the clitoris will also be evident.

Ejection of the fluid

It is, it seems, the rhythmic contractions of pelvic muscle during orgasm which expel the accumulated fluid as at least one constituent of female ejaculation.

Amount of fluid ejaculated

The amount of fluid released can be considerable, sometimes up to a tablespoon and a half through repeated filling and emptying of the glands during orgasm. In vivo studies show that the amount can be considerably higher, producing volumes as much as one to one and a half litres of such fluid.[17]

Sexual stimulation

According to some, female ejaculation is mostly accomplished by stimulation of the urethral sponge (sometimes identified as the G-spot) an area purported to be near the front of the vaginal wall.More rarely, ejaculation can be accomplished through external stimulation of the clitoris alone, the internal tissue of the clitoris then contracting and stimulating the urethral tissue.

Bottom line

If you are a woman who ejaculates, or one who does not, don't sweat it! Some women do and some women don't. There is no right or wrong. Try to find your g-spot to enjoy the feeling of stimulation. If you end up experiencing female ejaculation, great. If you don't, so what? Just enjoy yourself!

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